Professional Caregivers
You spend your days caring for others. Who’s caring for you? I work with nurses, teachers, social workers, therapists, and helping professionals of every kind — people who give so much at work that there’s little left over for themselves. Here, you’re seen. You’re heard. You’re valued.
What You're Carrying
Helping professions demand your time, your patience, your emotional energy, and often your physical safety. Most days, the job doesn’t ask if you have anything left to give.
- Compassion fatigue — caring so much for so long that you've gone numb
- Burnout — exhaustion a weekend off doesn't fix
- Invisibility — showing up every day for people who rarely ask how you're doing
- Moral distress — knowing what your patients or students need, without the resources to give it to them
- Unprocessed trauma — from things you've seen that most people never will
- Isolation — feeling like no one outside your field really gets it
My Approach
You give so much of yourself to your work. This is where that gets returned to you.
I bring particular experience with nurses and other healthcare professionals, and I also work with teachers, social workers, therapists, and helping professionals across many fields. Whatever your role, I understand the specific toll of a job built around caring for other people.
My approach is trauma-informed and draws on CBT, narrative therapy, and mindfulness-based stress reduction. We’ll work through what you’ve witnessed, what the work has cost you, and how to keep doing meaningful work without losing yourself to it.
You don’t need to be in crisis to be here. Wanting a space where you’re seen, heard, and valued is reason enough.
FAQs
I feel numb at work. I used to care so much, and now I barely feel anything. Is that normal?
Yes. That’s called compassion fatigue, and it’s incredibly common in helping professions. It doesn’t mean you don’t care anymore. It means you’ve been giving without anything coming back for a long time, and something had to give.
I'm still tired even after a weekend off. What's wrong with me?
Nothing is wrong with you. What you’re describing is burnout, not just regular tiredness. Rest doesn’t fix it because the problem isn’t a lack of sleep — it’s the ongoing weight of the work itself.
I know what my patients or students need, but I don't have the resources to give it to them. It's eating at me.
That’s called moral distress, and it’s one of the hardest realities of working in an underfunded system. You’re not failing them. The system is failing both of you, and that’s worth talking through.
I still think about things from COVID. Is it normal to still be affected by that?
Yes. Many people in helping professions went through something genuinely traumatic during those years and never had space to process it. Whatever you experienced, it’s real, and it’s not too late to talk about it now.
Nobody at work ever asks how I'm doing. Does that matter?
Yes, it matters. Being the person who takes care of everyone else doesn’t mean your own feelings stop counting. This is a space built to ask how you’re doing, and actually listen to the answer.
I love my job, but it's taking everything out of me. Can therapy help me stay in this field without burning out completely?
Yes. This work isn’t about pushing you out of a career you care about. It’s about helping you build a sustainable relationship with it, so you can keep doing meaningful work without losing yourself in it.
I keep wondering if I'm just burnt out, or if I actually need a whole new career. How do I know the difference?
This is one of the hardest questions to sit with alone, and you don’t have to answer it by yourself. Sometimes what looks like “wrong career” is really burnout that hasn’t had a chance to heal — and sometimes it really is time for a change. We’ll sort out which one you’re facing before you make any big decisions.
I spent so much money and time getting into this career. Is it okay to just walk away?
Yes, it’s okay. What you spent to get here doesn’t mean you have to stay somewhere that’s hurting you. That’s a real loss to grieve, not a debt you have to keep paying with your wellbeing. We’ll work through what you’re weighing, so any decision you make is actually yours.
I love my job, but I don't know how to advocate for myself without being seen as a problem worker. Can you help me with that?
This is a real fear, and it makes sense in a field where speaking up can feel risky. Advocating for yourself doesn’t have to mean conflict or confrontation. We’ll work on how to voice what you need in a way that protects both your job and your wellbeing.